Jul 29, 2011

The Woman in Your Life

The Woman in Your Life

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, 
but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, 
who is as much educated as you are;
who is earning almost as much as you do.

who has dreams and aspirations just as you have;
because she is as human as you are.

who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't,
as she was busy in studies and competing in a system 
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.

who has lived and loved her parents, brothers & sisters,
almost as much as you do for whole of her life.

who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that,
her home, 
people who love her,
to adopt your home,
your family,
your ways and even your family name.

who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1,
while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances,
environment and that kitchen.

who is expected to make the tea,
first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day,
even if she is a tired as you are,
maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain;
to be a servant, 
a cook,
a mother,
a wife,,
even if she doesn't want to;
and is learning just like you are as;
to what you want from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times and know that you won't like it if she is too demanding,
or if she learns faster than you.

who has her own set of friends,
and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too,
who she knows from school days and;
yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealously,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities.

she can drink and dance just as well as you can,
but won't simply;
because you won't like it,
even though you say otherwise

who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines,
just like yours,
are to be met.

who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success,
if you just help her some and trust her.

who just wants one thing from you,
as you are the only on she knows in your entire house,
your unstinting  support,
your sensitivities and most importantly,
your understanding,
or love,
if you may call it.

Please appreciate "HER"

Source: Forwarded Email From My Friend


Armstrong said...

Wow I know women work harder than men in all things but I never see it that way, the way you describe it. I will appreciate HER more! :) Especially my mum heehe. And the other ONE of course ;D

a-Me said...

Yup, actually this post i take from an email that received. It's really have a lot meaning especialy to my mum, so thats why I shared it here. :)

Aemy Shamy said...

This is awesome! :)
Indeed, women have a high level in the world, because they're loving and sensitive..
I respect myself as a woman & I respect other women too, like you, my girlfriends, my sisters, & my mom. :)
Thank you for sharing this ^^

a-Me said...

Yup.. No problem.. :)