Jul 29, 2011

The Woman in Your Life


The Woman in Your Life


Tomorrow you may get a working woman, 
but you should marry her with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, 
who is as much educated as you are;
who is earning almost as much as you do.

One,
who has dreams and aspirations just as you have;
because she is as human as you are.

One, 
who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't,
as she was busy in studies and competing in a system 
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements.

One, 
who has lived and loved her parents, brothers & sisters,
almost as much as you do for whole of her life.

One,
who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that,
her home, 
people who love her,
to adopt your home,
your family,
your ways and even your family name.

One, 
who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day 1,
while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances,
environment and that kitchen.

One,
who is expected to make the tea,
first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day,
even if she is a tired as you are,
maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain;
to be a servant, 
a cook,
a mother,
a wife,,
even if she doesn't want to;
and is learning just like you are as;
to what you want from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times and know that you won't like it if she is too demanding,
or if she learns faster than you.

One,
who has her own set of friends,
and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too,
those,
who she knows from school days and;
yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealously,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities.

Yes,
she can drink and dance just as well as you can,
but won't simply;
because you won't like it,
even though you say otherwise

One,
who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines,
just like yours,
are to be met.

One, 
who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success,
if you just help her some and trust her.

One,
who just wants one thing from you,
as you are the only on she knows in your entire house,
your unstinting  support,
your sensitivities and most importantly,
your understanding,
or love,
if you may call it.

Please appreciate "HER"








Source: Forwarded Email From My Friend

Jul 28, 2011

Tongue Twisters Thursday #4


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Luke Luck likes lakes.
Luke's duck likes lakes.
Luke Luck licks lakes.
Luck's duck licks lakes.
Duck takes licks in lakes Luke Luck likes.
Luke Luck takes licks in lakes duck likes.

Jul 14, 2011

Tongue Twisters Thursday #3


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Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers,
if Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers,
where is the peck of pickled peppers Peter Piper picked?

Jul 12, 2011

A Few Simple Words Can Make the Difference

Few days ago, I read a book about Marriage given by my fiance. The book is all about tips how to make marriage work. It's more to practical tips. So one of the interesting topic is the title of my post that I would like to share today. Even though this 3 phrase is just a few simple words but it really mean everything in our life. 

The 1st phrase is "I Love You"
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It is a phrase used freely during courtship, but not so freely after marriage. We never outgrow the need to say it or hear it. To say, "I Love You" may at times require discipline. To say it when we may not feel like it, will affirm that our relationship is deeper than the moment and stronger than any disagreement. "I Love You" is something we say to each other regardless of how long we have known each other, or the number of years we have been married to each other. It shows that we are determined that our love will never grow old or stale.


The 2nd phrase is "I Thank You"
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We may receive many valuable gifts on our wedding day. However, the most valuable gift we will have received or will ever receive during our lifetime together is the gift of each other. It is sad that our thankfulness for material gifts received can grow faints as through use we take them for granted, or as they wear with age. Indifference must never overtake our relationship. Therefore, to say thanks to each other for little favours done, or niceties noticed, will renew our appreciation and keep us from taking each other for granted. A timely "Thank You" will lift our spirits and inspire our devotion.


The 3rd phrase is "I Am Sorry"
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When the Bible says, "Let not the sun go down on your anger" (Ephesians 4:26), it gives us sound advice. The first glow of love allows the words "I Am Sorry" to come easily to our lips. "I Am Sorry" readily said and deeply felt will move to mend what is broken. And just as quick, a word of forgiveness: "Thats OK; I Understand... I Forgive You..." will heal the rift and restore what is torn.

***
"The person who tries to live alone will not succeed as a human being.
His heart withers if it does not answer another heart.
His mind shrinks away if he hears only the echoes of his own thoughts
and finds no other inspiration."
~ Pearl S. Buck

Source: Practical tips to make your marriage work by Deepu Paul

Jul 7, 2011

Tongue Twisters Thursday #2


Google Image

Mr. See owned a saw.
And Mr. Soar owned a seesaw.
Now See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw
Before Soar saw See,
Which made Soar sore.
Had Soar seen See's saw
Before See sawed Soar's seesaw,
See's saw would not have sawed
Soar's seesaw.
So See's saw sawed Soar's seesaw.
But it was sad to see Soar so sore
Just because See's saw sawed
Soar's seesaw!


Jul 1, 2011

Its Friday!!!

"It's Friday, Friday
Gotta get down on Friday
Everybody's lookin' forward to the weekend, weekend..."

Yeay.. It's Friday & it is 1st of July. 
Pejam celik, pejam celik habis sudah half year of 2011 kan.
Another half year to go start today. 

Ada lagi saya mau kasi share-share ni. Tapi sebelum tu kamu tengok dulu gambar ini k.
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Kamu tengok tu calendar kita untuk ini July 2011
Itu Friday, Saturday sama Sunday ada 5 times kan. Siok oh kan.. hihihi.

Menurut tu sumber internet yang saya google search, ini 5 times of Friday, Saturday & Sunday akan berlaku lagi pada tahun 2016. 
Erm, tidak tahu la kan kalu masih panjang umur ka tidak. Hihihi..

Bah itu saja lah yang saya mau share. 
Have a nice weekend all..

Happy Friday!!!